My pregnancy

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  • Congratulations to you and family! Ryan is adorable! Thank you for sharing these precious sweet moments. :):)

  • First Basenji's

    Ryan is so beautiful! The pictures with the siblings are so sweet. Congrats again!


  • OMG, I'm so behind on this thread. Congrats to you and your family! :D:D:D


  • I missed the big news, congratulations on this new arrival, great photo report,
    your pack is just so sweet.


  • Ryan is absolutely beautiful! I love the pictures. I think my favorite picture is the one with them keeping an eye on your grandmother while she holds the baby. Your announcement card is adorable.

    Pat


  • Thanks for all the sweet words :D We read it together (kas and I) and we're very happy with it!

    Yesterday, the B's were sitting next to me and Ryan was lying in front of me.. I think it's a great picture.. And yes… I know I wear a very ugly suit :D

    And a little funny picture:

    When I'm all back to my normal "me" I will be more posting on the forum..
    During these days, I have to take some rest.. (the midwife and Kas become sooo angry when I don't want to take some rest… so I'm not so much on the computer.. I've a lot of doggie pics I want to share.... have to wait with that)


  • Lovely lovely pics Kim. Kas and the midwife are right though you must get enough rest, try to sleep when Ryan does. Your body has been through a lot and you need to build up your strength.
    OMG i feel like your mum :D sorry to nag you :D


  • Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful new son! You look lovely, and the photos and story of your dogs bonding with the baby are truly wonderful. Your dogs are really amazing. Thank you for sharing this wonderful experience with all of us! Now, do as Kas says and rest!

  • Houston

    Great pictures, you look great..I would not even think about what you are wearing, be comfortable and rest, rest, rest..when you can.
    I know it is boring, I had a hard time with it, I felt great, no pains after either of my births, but the rest is important for future sleepless nights..
    We can all wait for the pictures until you are up to it and have the time, meanwhile enjoy your new enlarged family..


  • Thank you for the pictures and you look very pretty. Your a new mom and you still are glowing. I just love the pictures of babies right there with you and son. I do so agree that pictures can wait to be posted. The more you rest the faster and better you will be so rest and enjoy. Kim it go's so fast and you close your eyes they walk close them again there in school. All of you just sit back enjoy and you "REST".

    Rita Jean


  • Congratulations on the baby - I could celebrate and send you a Podengo baby to go with your Beezer - wouldn't that be a great baby gift! LOL


  • @dmcarty:

    Congratulations on the baby - I could celebrate and send you a Podengo baby to go with your Beezer - wouldn't that be a great baby gift! LOL

    Oooow please do!!! hahaha
    It would be great but I think it?s gonna be too much :D
    We have to buy a bigger ship when we take everyting we want… (much more dogs.. cats... )


  • I like this shot! "Nice to see you but we'll be keeping an eye on you Grandma".


  • tooo late, sorry!

    Huge congratulations to your fabulous Family addition. Welcome to the world, little Ryan!

    Take care,

    Regards,
    Esther


  • I don't know how I missed this! Beautiful birth story and lovely pictures. Congrats on the new baby…he is beautiful and has a wonderful family! Take care ((hugs))...you look lovely!


  • @nala121498:

    I don't know how I missed this! Beautiful birth story and lovely pictures. Congrats on the new baby…he is beautiful and has a wonderful family! Take care ((hugs))...you look lovely!

    Thanks!

    And thanks everyone!
    I'm a bit more on mij computer now, I'm very busy with reading ALL the new posts at the forum and post a little myselfe!
    Everything goes really well, Ryan is very sweet and healthy..
    The dogs are SO crazy about him!!! :D
    In Holland the weather is gray and rainy so.. most people are ill.. Both Kas and I are too :( We sure use a lot of tissues these days hahahaha

    Little Hi from Ryan


    With daddy's big hands!

    I have the most wonderfull picture on my camera… Ryan is resting in a little baby chair on the ground (yes with lots of warm blankets) and Chafuko has taken the spot below his chair, with his head on the little blanket :D Tooo cute!


  • Ryan is very handsome and dad's hand looks giant. I am so happy that the kids all love Ryan that is so very special. I am sorry you have colds old German method put vicks on bottom of your feet put on some heavy socks and crawl into bed and rest. My children never had vicks on there chest always on bottom of the feet.
    Can hardly wait to see the picture of Chafuko sitting by chair head on blanket making sure no one takes the baby what a love. Take care and get us up to date and thanks. Who knows if I have spelled anything correct on here I am on laptop and keys are different then the keyboard keep looking for the mouse.

    Rita Jean


  • Awe congrats on the birth!!

  • Houston

    Kim,

    He is so beautiful..and tiny.

    I am happy the dogs are loving having a human brother..

    I have a picture of my daughter newborn, 9 yrs ago, with my two dogs, Bogus and Lou laying ever so closely to her..watching, sniffing and just guarding their sister…so sweet.


  • Update!

    Last days I had a terrible connection with my internet, I wanted to post this earlier but here it is!
    Ryan is doing great, he is no longer that very little boy but he becoms a beautiful little fellow :D
    He is so happy, making his first "words" (read: brr ugh, oh) and sure kicks a lot with his little legs!

    The dogs become more in love each day, they always keep close to him and give him hugs..
    We sometimes have to say it's really enough because otherwise we have to clean Ryan up after their "cleaning" job on him.

    Chafuko always wants to sit next to me when I'm feeding Ryan.
    I have one hand free and with that I can pet Chafuko.. he loves it..

    Her a few pics, Ryan 4 weeks old (he is now already 5 weeks and this weekend were going to make new pics)

    I do have to say, I don't think babys look great on pics, they always look a bit silly :D

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