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New foster Sophia need some advice

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  • @Patty:

    Having studied methods of very many animal behaviourists, trainers etc …From experience we can gradually glean what is best for our individual dogs. This is where this forum is invaluable, as we can learn from others' experiences as well as our own.

    Therein lies the problem though, Patty. When people post who lack fairly basic training knowledge and pick up things like Koehler and Millan, they don't have a CLUE what is good. Millan, like Koehler before, have major robot followers doing damage to their dogs that they do not have the ability to undo. So why not seek out the positive trainers to start with. It works for all breeds, especially basenjis :)

  • Westcoastflea, I want to make sure you understand that I'm not directly arguing with you personally. However, I know that folks use the googlemachine and that they read sources like basenji forums specifically for help with training issues, so I want to make sure to point out: basenji people do NOT recommend cesar. His methods, including the roll (which was in your first post referring to him), are not recommended for basenjis. The cesar roll would not be something "positive" to take from his principles.

    Again, I know fosters have a lot on their plates. I fostered a boy a couple years ago for a year, and it was a big task that I could not do forever :) I applaud your efforts and your willingness to look at all places and sources for ways to help the dogs in your care. But I do feel strongly about making sure that "bystanders" know that we as a basenji community do not recommend his methods, including the roll.

  • Awwww, Westcoastflea, Sophia is beautiful! I'm glad that you are open to everyone's comments on here; we all are thinking about your little girl and hoping that she's adjusting well to "real life". :) Keep up the great work!

  • who is the ultimate judge of a good training method and a bad training method?
    im certainly in no position to make that judgement and freely admit it:)

    is there anyone here who can state absolutely that they know the best training method?

    unfortunately we dont have a divine being who can come down and make the final decision on the best way to train your dog:)

    so all that any dog owner can do is try to find as much information as possible on the subject of dog training and glean from it what they can
    the people who now have years of experience started out as inexperienced people looking for information they were obviously capable of processing the information they found and acting on it so i can only assume the rest of us are capable of that as well

    there will be things that we try that dont work and things that we try that do
    in dealing with my fosters i use cesars advice to be patient, to respect my dog, to look for signals that my dog might give me as a key to how the dog is feeling at the time and to feel empowered to place limits on the behaviors i will allow in my home

    yes i rolled sophia twice it was non violent and very calm
    am i continuing to do this? no
    for no other reason then i think ive found something better to try

    for sophia rolling was not an issue neither harmful nor helpful

    would that hold true for all basenjis? of course not but this is sophia we are discussing not basenjis in general
    right now we are dealing with sophias fear of loud noises issue
    im using cesars advice to be patient, very very patient with her,
    cant see how anyone can fault that :)

  • absolutely love the advice and support here
    its like a little community with all kinds of different personalities
    its been really helpful for me hearing so much advice from so many different people
    sophia really is a little cutie

    a trip to the dog park today certainly helped my mental health:) i think sophia enjoyed it too!

    she is going up for adoption on friday i believe

  • One day I went to the local (Colorado Springs) zoo and they were in the process of clicker training one of the elephants. Actually, I think they were training a new trainer to clicker train the ele.

  • Simon started out fearful of loud noises and has… improved :) He's still cautious, but young enough that I think it will mostly pass. One sort of odd thing we discovered by accident: we have a ton of action and scifi movies (teenage/college kids) and running them softly and then gradually increasing the volume sort of desensitized him. Scifi movies have a lot of "sudden" noises. Once we realized it helped him, then we upped the ante with pizza :D

    Edit to add: Matrix and Lord of the Rings were awesome for this. I think the best part for Simon was that we were snuggly watching movies - he would lurch away at sudden sounds and then see us keep munching away and come right back. "Surely it can't be too bad if they're safe on the sofa; also, they have pizza." I'm pretty sure that's what he was thinking.

  • Clicker training is used by many animal groups.
    We saw Cheeta's clicker trained to lure course at their zoo.

  • Lovely pics of the pretty Sophia, hope she finds a great forever home when her adoption comes up.

  • @sharronhurlbut:

    Clicker training is used by many animal groups.
    We saw Cheeta's clicker trained to lure course at their zoo.

    Lucky for the animals. Trainer's are starting to realize the benefits of clicker training. Training has come a long way in a short time. While some animal trainers still use the hooks on elephants, things are changing-very slowly though.

  • West Coast Flea, how is Sophia doing? Is she "Bunny" on the BRAT Rescue page? :)

  • hi there
    sophia is doing great, she stopped the humping behavior almost a week ago, the getting used to each other part is over and we finally meshed :)

    unfortunately or fortunately ( im not sure which) :) she is leaving here tomorrow to go to her new home.

    yes sophia is bunny on the brat page

    her daughter is venus who i believe is still on the page as well

    its going to be sooo hard to hand her over to someone she doesnt know when the brat volunteer comes to pick her up tomorrow,

    im not really sure how im actually going to be able to just hand her over to a stranger, makes me cry just to think about it.

    but im sure she will be very happy once she gets over being thrust into a new environment with new people for the second time in less then a month

    i just wish there was a way to make that easier for her, if i could do that then i wouldnt mind letting her go nearly as much. :)

  • Her new home will be so very happy to have her!

  • @westcoastflea1:

    who is the ultimate judge of a good training method and a bad training method?
    )

    Well, science, and the dog. We judge training methods by how effective they are. Does the training method work? Does it harm the dog in any way? Does it harm the human? Does it TRAIN the dog? Meaning, does it teach the dog what we wa nt taught? Or does it intimidate the dog so that bad behavior is somehwat suppressed but not necessarily changed?

    Good training is simple, effective, and teaches what we want taught. Bad training is confusing or intimidating, teaches things other than we want taught. A good example of this might be:
    Your dog tries to eat your cat all the time. You are at your wit's end. So you go out and buy a remote control shock collar. Every time the dog so much as looks at the cat, you shock the heck out of him. The dog changes hgis behaviour. He begins snarling aggressively at your child who happened to be in the vicinity when he was shocked for looking at the cat. He has 'learned' that your child triggers the scary shocks. He is no longer looking at the cat. He doesn't try to chase the cat. Instead he growls, shows fear of your child and concentrates on that.

    So is the training method good or bad? You say above, "Who is to judge?" Well, I will. The training method is bad. The dog has indeed stopped trying to eat the cat but he has not LEARNED to not eat the cat. He has reacted to an aversive and has changed his focus. He is confused. He has learned the wrong thing.

    Cesar Milan is admired by many people who are ignorant of dog training and animal behavior. He appears to get results. But I ask, what exactly do you want to teach your dog?

    There are clear and correct methods for training animals. Aversives and punishment are not as useful or clear as positive training methods. Period. That is not opinion. That is science.

    It is good that you have learned SOMEthing from Cesar. Learning to read dog's body language is very important. As is setting your parameters for behavior. Other than that, though, I would urge you to read up on animal behavior and dog training. Educate yourself, esp as a BRAT foster home, and you will be much much more equipped to deal with the idiosyncrasies of dogs in general.

    Best of luck.

  • no problem at all.

    I noticed you are in maine. If you ever need training help, an extra set of eyes in assessing your situation with a dog, please feel free to ask. I am about an hour from you (Gray, right?) and I can easily pop over and see what is what and help with ideas.

  • hi there
    thank you so much for offering that would be so helpful since im new to this
    are you by any chance the woman who came to pick up sophia/bunny last night?

  • nope! not at all. :)

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