My pregnancy

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  • :D

    I'm doing great!!!

    We just got back from the (I almost said vet.. :confused:) midwife and she told us everything went great with me and the baby!

    She told me I did a great job keeping healthy and happy during the last months and I'm dealing great with the stress. My bloodpressure was as low as it should be with me!!!
    I always had a very low bloodpressure and during my pregnancy it stayed nice and low. Only the last couple of months it raised a bit but this time it was 100 over 60 (I don't know if this means the same in English?)
    The baby is totally ready, so am I :D

    We now just have to wait… :D

    It's too crazy, last days we sleep a lot to catch up but we just don't know what to do with this daily routine... (normally we don't have any routine in our lives)
    We made a "programme" so we don't forget all the things we need to do during the vacation :D
    And today.. this afternoon we have an appointment at the vet for Buana (we have to check his eyes again, the results can be used during one year and then you have to test again)
    But we don't know what to do with the extra time... the dogs all want to sleep... so after our coffee... we go and paint someting outside hahaha

    We are so happy we have a nice place with the ship and we can rest now, but we cannot get used to the fact we live on one place now...
    Every time we go out to walk the dogs, we meet the same people and we're walking at the same place.. That's so weird for us!


  • That is wonderful news! ((Hugs)) to you for a wonderful delivery of your new "bundle of joy"! Looking forward to your beautiful pictures of you and your pups and "new addition"…(and yes, the BP numbers are the same in English ;)) Take care of yourself and enjoy your rest!


  • Happy to hear everything in life is grand. So nice your getting to rest and even better news all is well with you and baby. Can hardly wait to see baby pictures and pictures of gang with the baby. Waiting to see new pictures of the tummy painted again. Do take care and stay in touch with all of us.

    Rita Jean


  • ? have a feeling that the baby is on her/ his way…..
    and Kim hasnt been online since yesterday which confirms my feeling....
    I dont dare to call her, maybe she is in hard labour right now!!
    anyway I am thinking of her and send her my positive energy , she can use it ofcourse , even when she is not in labout at the moment...
    oh well blurry story, I am just very exited :D


  • Oh, if you are right, we all cross fingers for Kim at home and can?t wait to see pics of little baby! Hope it will be as easy as it can be (if it is possible) for Kim!


  • Please let us know if you find out for sure. This is great can hardly wait to see pictures and I wish her all the best.

    Rita Jean


  • Our fingers and paws are crossed for Kim and of course for Kas too :)

    Lots of good fibes coming your way!!

  • Houston

    Oh..my I can not believe the baby might be here..soon. I am sending good, fast labour vibes to all of you as well…let us know when you feel up to it..


  • There is a posting from Kim "My little lover" at 7.50pm this evening ?


  • There are several post on here from Kim. We all must be more in a hurry than the baby.

    Rita Jean


  • :D Easy!!!

    I'm still pregnant!!! Really great to read all the reactions here :)

    We made a daytrip to my parents today (I can't believe I still can do that :D)
    Hailey needed her shot with the vet and we went to bring the car to the garage… few weeks ago a car hit us at the back and our car has to be repaired (nothing bad happened, only a few scared people inside I'm very happy the dogs weren't in the car that moment)

    So that's why I didn't looked at my computer earlier :D

    I do have to say, I'm feeling a bit weird since the afternoon... :confused:
    The baby is very busy, Buana won't come from my lap and I just feeling weird.. (got no other words)

    Maybe this night? Maybe tomorrow?
    I will keep you updated, I know there are many online computers at the hospital, I just have to learn Kas how he can come to this site to post a little message he's a daddy ;)

  • Houston

    Good to hear from you …weird, that is how I felt before I had my daughter, although I felt weird for about a day or two before she got here..so It could be..will keep you and Kas in my thoughts. hope things go very well, quickly and least painful possible..


  • oohhh another explanation of you notbeing online today then I thought, or maybe hoped ;) I am happy to hear that you still are doing great though :D

    " de laatste loodjes " you go girl!!!!


  • Well I am happy to read that you are well and doing all right and so is little one. Like I said we all are in a hurry. I felt really great with my son got up look at husband told him he's not due until 27th and it's only 26th but we went to hosp and sure enough that evening we had son. My daughter that was another story another day for that. Ok you can go rest Kim now that we all know your all right hug the three babies and tell them hi.

    Rita Jean


  • Hi,

    im kas, and im proud to say tat kim has given birth to our son Ryan van de Lest on october 1e at 07:33 he's 2970gr heavy and 50cm long!!
    We are back home now but it wil take a little time before Kim herself can go on the internet so i'm just placing tis message and leave the rest to show up to kim

    greatings Kim, Kas, Ryan and the beasts

  • Houston

    Kas, Kim and all the beasts..what a happy October 1st for all of you..Wonderful news. It brought tears to my eyes…
    Ryan, what a pretty name..hope Kim and him are doing well, and you know that we are desperately wanting pictures..
    Take care, rest up and check back with us soon.


  • Congrats to you all! Welcome to the world and to this forum Ryan! :D


  • Congratulations Kim and Kas, welcome to the world little Ryan.
    What happy news, take care all of you Human, canine and feline :D

  • First Basenji's

    Congrats! I hope you are all doing well!


  • So happy to hear this great news. A son so special and a grand name it is. Can hardly wait to see pictures of new son and all of the family. Want to know how Kim and baby are doing and how the beasts looked when they seen the baby. Well for now Congratulations Kim, Kas, Ryan and Beasts. Thank you for letting us all know. Enjoy.

    Rita Jean

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