Thank you all for your opinions 
It was a hard decision for me, because I'm the one that wants a show puppy.. BF could care less about shows, pedigrees etc, as long as it's a sweet dog, it'll do 
It took me two years to really convince him to get a second dog, and after meeting Fossa it only took about 30 minutes for him to say that a third will be welcome too, but not for the next 3-4 years. (money, time, space.. everything, I fully agree with him on that one.. And Fossa will need time to grow up too)
Sooo.. Do I want that puppy now..? Or can I wait…? Pff.. hard one.. I already have a bunch of puppy collars.... but I think that the best thing I/we can do.. is go for Fossa.. She's already on this planet looking for a good owner.. I think we can offer her what she needs. And who knows? Maybe she will turn out to be great in agility
I will call the shelter tomorrow morning. The only problem we have is that we can't pick her up before wednesday... I hope the shelter won't mind keeping her two days longer..
If Fossa finds a home between now and Wednesday, then maybe it wasn't really meant to be.
If you were already on a breeder's waiting list, be sure you also call them to let them know. They may have been turning away perspective homes because their list was full and will now have to start screening for another home.
She is gorgeous. I see a bit of Azawakh in her. She is tall in the leg and quite rangy looking. I don't envy you the decision, I would be heartbroken over such a lovely girl. Let us know what you decide to do.
I saw the Azawakh too in the pictures.. especially in this pic: http://i650.photobucket.com/albums/uu230/jobammerlaan/Fossa/Fossa6.jpg
Another breed I love, so I have no problems with that..
Take her!!! Jaja i agree, next year who knows, you may get the puppy anyway!
If Fossa finds a home between now and Wednesday, then maybe it wasn't really meant to be.
If you were already on a breeder's waiting list, be sure you also call them to let them know. They may have been turning away perspective homes because their list was full and will now have to start screening for another home.
Yes, I agree and yes, will do.. after wednesday of course.. I still have a hard time letting that puppy go.. Sigh..
Fingers crossed you can give her a lovely home. I love Azawakhs too
Janneke,
i think in your heart you already knew you were going to take Fossa. She looks a realy special girl and how interesting that she actualy comes from africa. I do agree with Patty that it's a shame she was taken from her home country and then abandoned.
I look foward to hearing all about her.
Yes, I agree and yes, will do.. after wednesday of course.. I still have a hard time letting that puppy go.. Sigh..
It is a hard decision and one you will have to really think about and find the right answer for you, not what everyone else thinks. Though Fossa is already here and in need of a home, that puppy will be here in part because you said you wanted her and will now need a new home. Of course, there is no way to know for sure that there will be a girl puppy in the litter so it is still a bit of gamble. No easy answer, that's for sure.
I also don't envy the decision…I can only say just listen to you heart :).
Have you been thinking about getting more time for your decision? It is important decision and you should have a clear mind and don't be "stressed out" ;).
I just had a horrible night, with little sleep… And I feel really selfish.. But I don't think that I can wait another 3-4 years for a puppy.. Like I said.. We can't pick her up before wednesday.. So if she's gone by then.. It was supposed to go that way.. That will at least give us some extra time to think. I'm really a planner.. So I can't 'just' do something big like bringing home a young dog... :S
She is a lovely looking girl, I am sure she will settle in with you.
Tillo will enjoy the company and showing her what to do!
could you foster her for the shelter? i understand about wanting what you want, and certainly you should have the dog you want. after all, we're talking about a 15 year commitment.
If you are not sure that Fossa is right for your household right now, maybe you know others in the basenji community that might be interested in her? Perhaps letting the basenji club know that she is there, what her story is, and that she is in need of home, will bring the right home to her.
Fossa is very beautiful - since she and Tillo get along, and you are already losing your heart to her, I would suggest you keep her - you are so wonderful with your pups, owned and loaned, that she would have a great home, and she really needs it. I have a "real" basenji and a mix, and am very happy to have both.
@Shaye's:
Fossa is very beautiful - since she and Tillo get along, and you are already losing your heart to her, I would suggest you keep her - you are so wonderful with your pups, owned and loaned, that she would have a great home, and she really needs it. I have a "real" basenji and a mix, and am very happy to have both.
Ah yes, I remember the great times all of you had with Lycia. Tillo really did seem to enjoy his lady friend. But I agree with you that you should take a bit of time, at least until Wednesday, to think about this. Did you see yourself as a breeder down the line? Was the idea of getting a female down the line a step towards this? If so, you might want to wait, but until then, possibly do the best you can to find this dog a forever home, as mentioned above.
I don't envy the decision you have to make though. I don't know if I could turn down an immediate addition to the house, based on the situation you have mentioned. I know your partner has suggested you wait until getting another puppy, but with these feelings of adding another dog to your home, is it possible that you really are ready for another puppy girl right now? Just take the time to think it through clearly, and good luck.
Wow, Janneke, what a hard choice to make..I'd say wait and see what happens on wednesday…if she is there, that might be the sign..I also understand you wanting to get a puppy, it isn't selfish at all, don't think like that.
Keeping you in my thoughts as I know it will be hard..
Wow, Janneke, what a hard choice to make..I'd say wait and see what happens on wednesday…if she is there, that might be the sign..I also understand you wanting to get a puppy, it isn't selfish at all, don't think like that.
Keeping you in my thoughts as I know it will be hard..
I'm done with those signs.. you know how many 'puppy signs' I've had…
I spoke to the lady from the shelter who had Fossa at home for two weeks. She understood that I needed more time. She will be up for adoption and if BF and I make up our minds by wednesday and we would like to have her, we just have to hope she's still there.. although it would make it easier if someone else could offer her that perfect home. I know the shelter will only place her in a home with another dog, so that's comforting.
I believe our club only puts pedigree B's up for adoption on their website.. and only if the owner is a member… I think Fossa is in one of the best shelters there is in the Netherlands, it's very clean, they know a lot about the dogs, there is a lot of space for the dogs, play areas, daily walks, a vet in the building and a lot of nice people working there.. I know for sure that if we choose to go for a puppy, they will find a good home for Fossa.
We'll just spend the next couple of days looking at her pics and at puppy pics..
I think it's good that you really think about it.
What decision you are going to make it's not an impulse (is that the correct word?)
We can't help you making the decision, so lot's of succes thinking about it…
As I read your story about the shelter, she will get a good home for sure.
I really liked her but it's the same story here, there are "other" puppy plans here...
(of course I have to wait until we are moved haha)
I know Janneke, I know..whatever decision you make it will the best for you and your family..I just wish you the best..
I'm no help. I say take her and work on the BF later. No one can resist a cute Basenji puppy!
I say take her only if you can take her and put off the puppy for at least a couple of years. It sounds like you and your BF agree that 2 dogs is tops for now. I do agree, go with your heart. Other option is to foster her.. will they let you?
Though Fossa is already here and in need of a home, that puppy will be here in part because you said you wanted her and will now need a new home.
I'd be shocked to find any breeder who bred based on one or even 4 potential homes. We breed to create the next generation, not because of any individual lined up as a home. And if that breeder has no options other than that one home, don't you think something is terribly wrong? That puppy has far better chance of a SUPER home than Fossa does.
That said, I think the issue is what does she WANT. Sadly there are probably 100 dogs in that shelter who need a home even more than Fossa since how many can be that gorgeous! Ultimately we aren't responsible for adopting because a dog needs a home, but rather because that dog is the right one for us.
