@Basenjimamma:
I see the embarassement factor in this situation, yes..it is almost like admitting defeat, of course depending on why your are letting the dog go. Either way the poor dog gets caught in the middle.
Exactly… but to address the "embarrassment" factor... when it is something like financial.. certainly can understand and understand embarrassment, because 99% of the time they do not want to give up the pup, but have to. When it is due to (and way to many for this reason) because we now have a child and it is much to hard to work with the dog... or we never worked with the dog before hand and now he/she is out of control... I would image that the breeder may or may not make some comment... I would be hard pressed not to...
I know of a case that someone had a B girl for 10 yrs... then had a "surprise" human child... the B was never socialized well and especially not with children... they gave the girl up because it was too much trouble to work with the dog and the child.... those really get to me.