I was a little pre-occupied earlier today, and Doodle displayed her displeasure at my constant delays... how? She got up on the sofa and did this little prancing-dancing thing. Like she was saying, "haha, look at me misbehaving". LOL oh yeah.... if that is her "breaking bad", I'm in trouble, she's got my heart!
My pregnancy
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Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
You have done a great job in letting the dogs know that something is about to change the dynamics of your family, but it won't mean that you don't see them as part of the family. They have already felt the baby and sensed the change in you and your body, now the fun part is almost here..the new baby. The dogs will love it as their own little pup. -
Who knows since the pups have been listening to the baby never know baby and pups may have lots to talk about mom and dad maybe be on the outside looking in.
Rita Jean
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It will all work out great! You are almost to the end…and then the hard work starts
I felt the same way you do, when we had our first child..and already four Bs. I said 'how can I possibly love a baby as much as I love these dogs????' but you will be AMAZED...it is not that you will love the baby more, but in a different, but similar way. The baby will rely on you in a way that dogs never would...and you will feel responsible for the baby, even more than you do the dogs...but in a great way.The only advice for you I have is this: relish the time you have feeling the baby moving around, memorize how it feels, so you can recall it years later...it is the thing (the only thing) I missed about pregnancy after it was over. And I even had "phantom" moving around feelings after Ethan was born.
I am so excited for you, and your family
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I second it about the baby moving around nothing like it in the world. Yes hard part starts the second little goes into the arms and could have been the start of gray hair. Just joking. I have to say in our house kids, dogs, cats and bird all go hand in hand. Best to all of you and the best is yet to come for you.
Rita Jean
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Kim, you cant imagine how happy I am for you guys, allthough I told you severall times haha, I almost had to cry when I read your story, allthough you allready have told me most of it , I love you guys !!!!
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Kim, that was a wonderful description of your feelings and your pregnancy. You are a great mom already, adding a 2-legged kid will make your family complete. Enjoy these quiet times.
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Thanks all so much for you very sweet reply's
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What a wonderfully told note about your pregnancy and your dogs. I loved being pregnant….all but the last few weeks when I was impatient to see the baby. I babysit our little grandsons, mostly the 3 year old. Cory and Jayden are very good with him...especially Cory, who is always glad to see Anderson.
Since dogs have such good hearing, I wonder if your dogs can hear the gentle "swish swish" sound of the baby's heart beat and the blood supply going to the baby? I'll bet they can and think it is a very soothing sound. That may be one reason they like to have their heads next to your tummy.
I'm excited for you!
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Good Morning Buna and babies well at least it is morning here. Hope you all have a nice easy and restful day.
Rita Jean
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Thanks Rita Jean
it sure was a beatiful morning here (Germany, Near "wesel")I think you're right Pat, I was told they hear the heart beat very good, so after this 8months it's a calm sound that they already know about..
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Good Morning not so very pretty here in Kansas this morning. Sky is kind of a gray overcast but we could use a little rain. I was just wondering are you packed and ready to go? When I had our daughter I think I must have packed my case two months ahead of time.
Just a question of do you know what your having and the name? Lots of people like to know ahead of time and then some make everyone else wait and see.
Hope all of you have a great day get a nice book and just take it easy.Rita Jean
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@Rita:
Good Morning not so very pretty here in Kansas this morning. Sky is kind of a gray overcast but we could use a little rain. I was just wondering are you packed and ready to go? When I had our daughter I think I must have packed my case two months ahead of time.
Just a question of do you know what your having and the name? Lots of people like to know ahead of time and then some make everyone else wait and see.
Hope all of you have a great day get a nice book and just take it easy.Rita Jean
Oh yes! The room was done before I was 6 months pregnant… (well, the room itselfe was done at 3 months... all the needed "things" were complete at 6 months :D)
Since a week, I have a emergency suitcase standby.
Also written a couple of pages for Kas, I know he is going to get crazy when I""start" so I wrote some things down (wich suitcase, importants phone numbers, what to do when I started etc)
I took all the important papers and documents, and put that together with the little note book.. so when it's time.. he don't have to be afraid he will forget someting.. (well, he may drive away to the hospital without me but with Hailey instead.. ahummmm hahaha)We already know what we are having, we wanted to know that before we went to buy little clothes and some other things.
We keep it a secret we think it's nice to have something as a surprise
A friend of us knew it also, bought all sort of clothes and what turns out? she got a girl instead of a boy!!!! hahaha So I always say we know for 90% what we are getting!About the names.. we wanted to have kids for a longer time (but wanted to wait untill the time was right) and always thought of "Hope" for a girl and Lukas for a boy..
But both names were used soooo many times, it's not special anymore...So we have new names, both English names... I think they are very nice...
Part of our choise for those two names is because they are from a serie on tv we really have a connection with...
Also Hailey got her (new) name from that serie...
The caracters of the names fit very close to our own, and the strange thing is..
We first came up with those names and after we thought yes! that are great names" we thought about the serie, thats what made our decision clear!.. Very weird but so cool! -
That is really great your all ready and you really did it early. With our daughter they could not tell what we were having so all of us had to wait. We did not think we were every going to have kids so this was like were did you come from. My husband and I just made up our minds that was ok just could do more in life.
When it came to names we had so much ground to cover it was hard so both of our children have three names and there last name.
We knew what we were having with our son and that made it a lot easier to get the room ready and the clothes. The only bad thing was we could not pass clothes down to the next one.
A friend of ours had made each of children blankets out of yarn that we used to bring them home in. I took the clothes and booties and blankets and had porcelain dolls made to look as much as could be as my children and put the homecomming clothes and blanket on them. Hopefully someday when I am a granny I can pass this on.
Well we are not gray in Kansas anymore it is raining cats and dogs here but thats ok.
Rita Jean
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Lovely post. I too, smiled the through the entire read. Pregnancy is an amazing experience. How the pups respond to it make it even more so. Looking forward to hearing about when the new little one arrives.
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@Rita:
A friend of ours had made each of children blankets out of yarn that we used to bring them home in. I took the clothes and booties and blankets and had porcelain dolls made to look as much as could be as my children and put the homecomming clothes and blanket on them. Hopefully someday when I am a granny I can pass this on.
Well we are not gray in Kansas anymore it is raining cats and dogs here but thats ok.
Rita Jean
Wow! That sounds so special!!!
We did not have any rain today, that's good for us since the boys painted part of the ship today!
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OMG….what a GREAT story. I'm so happy for you and the new addition to your family. Please keep us posted on the family's progress.
It sounds like your fur-babies are as much into this as the rest of the family. That's WONDERFUL!! IMO, they really do feel our emotions, react to our hormones/bodily smells/biological changes, and 90% of the time, respond appropriately.
Bless you dearest new mother to be. You're in my prayers. Keep us posted.
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Kim , i realy enjoyed reading your post, its fascinating to read about the Dogs reactions, i wonder what they think. It sounds as if you have done lots of preperation work with them.
What English names have you chosen?
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Buana, hi hope all is well and your feeling good. How much longer to go? Are you and the dogs all getting spoiled taking life easy? I do hope you are taking it easy. Let us know how you are doing.
Rita Jean
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Thank you very much for you interest Rita Jean
Here is a full update!It's coming very close at the moment, four more weeks to go but I really think I'm earlier.. I'm walking a week ahead on the count down (from week 17, everyting is as it would be the 18th week)
We are sailing our last trip now.. From Amsterdam to Bulstringen and from Bulstringen back to Hengelo (holland)
We will be in Bulstringen (that's close to Berlin) this tuesday and the company there promised us they took notice of the little time we have and they will unload and load us as fast as they can.
Then we sail back to Holland and unload at Hengelo, then sail empty to Nieuwegein (that's close to Utrecht and close to my family)
We will be there about the 18th of September.. two weeks before the actual due date.This week we had a appointment with the midwife (is that the good word?) for my health check but the drive to Holland is too far (more then 3,5 hour) so we tryed to call a hospital in Bulstringen and they were so friendly and nice. We can come for my health check there, no problem!
Also the couple of company's that provide our materials to transport are so nice! They really tryed to think with us and give us a very good last trip to make. (we decide for ourselfse wich trip we choose to make)
In holland the tranports world is having a bad time, so there are very little trips to choose from.. we were afraid we had to choose all different little trips before the 18th of september but then they called us. If we wanted to make our favorite trip to Germany…. YES!!!!The people in the transport world are mostly a bit rough, escpessially the load and unload company's but they are now so friendly and call us sometime to ask how it's going.. Gives us such a nice feeling!
With me everyting is great, i'm feeling very good and I still can do my own work :o (o no i just can't let Kas do everyting)
I just take some more time, rest a bit while i'm working and thats going great..
I even started a new training with my brindle boy... Fetching...
We bought a official fetching toy and it took me a few hours to make Chafuko clear what he has to do.. (read: I had to fetch it for myselfe a hundred times) but now he knows and he really likes it..
A new hobby... hahahaThe only negative issue is my weight :(.. The Dutch standart is to gain 15 to 20 kilo's but I only gained 5..
In the first months I lost weight, then I gained 5 kilo's and the last month untill this day I gained nothing.
The doctors told us, the baby will take everyting he needs. It has nothing to do with the baby. It's just me that lost some weight, I think because of all sort of things like I won't eat that much and I keep having my exercise (I like to walk, and play with the dogs as much as I can)
I'm very happy the baby is a 100% healthy..So I'll keep you all updated
I have a nice picture to share!!!
Kas painted my tummy yesterday... (there is a advertisement on the tv with pregnant woman and a painted tummy so there's the idea)
A 90 minute sit for me, but a great result ON picture! (and i'm happy it came off with a little water hahah)
