@jys1011:
my husband gets kisses from TOPAZ on command :D…we have an amazing bond with our dogs.
I am training Dallas to lick my chin when I saw "kisses" So cute!
I think you can have just as strong of a bond with an adopted adult as with a puppy.
That said, I don't blame you for wanting your shot at having a puppy for your first dog. It will be tough though. It's literally like having a newborn in the house (personally I think even worse…). In my opinion, you should not be as worried about a Basenji ruining your things if left at home. You should be focused instead on understanding the breed & knowing how to properly train them so that [hopefully] you can eventually leave them uncrated as they get past their destructive chew phase in puppyhood.