@rocky1 I'm so very sorry for your loss. They become such a part of our souls. I've already had a few tears over just the thought of what it will be like without him.
Help! Not sure about a trainer to help with a kid-nipping basenji
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I think this is a good discussion. Different experience makes for different points of view. I truly don't want to argue, but discuss. I've used "positive" methods with both horses and dogs for a long, long time. I was doing the "horse whisperer" stuff before it got popular…..to teach my guys to come at my call, stand while being mounted, etc. etc. However, I am uncomfortable with the way in which people interpret (or misinterpret) how to go about conditioning a positive response because I have seen people who misunderstand create animals that are pushy, demanding, and downright dangerous.
In my opinion, if you have a dog that has issues, particularly one that is mature and has recently changed its behaviour toward kids (or whatever), something has likely happened to cause this. If the dog is uncomfortable and chooses to avoid children, and you condition it to accept children by pairing kids with a food reward, the danger is that the dog will now seek out children (to obtain a reward) and a child will inadvertently trigger a bite by doing something that recalls in the dog the original incident that started the behaviour in the first place. If you don't know what that was, all you are doing is increasing the likelihood that an incident will occur. Everyone who has been around dogs for awhile has seen or heard of an instance where a dog "went off" on someone for no apparent reason. There is always a reason. It's just that we often don't know what it is. Kids are not going to tell you what they may have done to the dog when you weren't looking.
One thing is certain. "The only thing two trainers can agree on is that the third one is doing it wrong!"
In any event, I hope that the OP gets good advice from a competent trainer and has a successful outcome, whatever method is employed. I'm off to Cuba for a week, so I'll be away from the forum for awhile. My sincere thanks to all for an interesting discussion (one of many) and a special acknowledgement to Debra, with whom I am sure I will continue to "agree to disagree". Would love to discuss dog training over a bottle of wine some long evening. Who knows? We might even get along.
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I've got to agree with eeeefarm and Chealsie508: NO parent has time to supervise dogs and kids 24/7, but if you can't, training the dog–who will never mature beyond a mental age of 3--isn't the answer. Save yourself the money, train the kids--or keep the dog with you or crated when there are Foreign Anklebiters on Prem.
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YodelMa, really? So if you can't train every child in the world to respect your dog, don't bother training the dog? Okay then. Because if you read, the issue is not the PERSON'S CHILDREN, but others. You only have so much control of other people's kids. So while no one said teaching the dog to become positive about children is foolproof, it is one huge step.
And again, sorry but nonsense on the trigger a bite. Of course any one, not just a child, can do something to make your dog bite. BUT if the dog is stressed about children AND you blink AND they do something, you can bet your last dollar there will be a bad response. But if you teach the dog to respond positively to children, AND you blink AND they do something stupid, your chances are greatly improved that this now-relaxed around kids dog might not respond horribly. And to argue with that simply defies any logic or knowledge of conditioning training.
And now, done, because no matter how logical or sensible I post, someone twists into these bizarre outcomes and it isn't a discussion, it is beating a dead horse.
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YodelMa, really? So if you can't train every child in the world to respect your dog, don't bother training the dog? Okay then. Because if you read, the issue is not the PERSON'S CHILDREN, but others. You only have so much control of other people's kids. So while no one said teaching the dog to become positive about children is foolproof, it is one huge step.
Debra, you'll agree that the time–and skill--required to produce a RELIABLE response is considerable, even with a trainer on board. Realistically, does the mother of an active 4/5 year old have that time and skill? Which is why my response is 1) supervise 2) teach the kids to be respectful 3) if 1) and 2) not possible, separate the dog from the kids.
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I don't remember the last part being there before
NO parent has time to supervise dogs and kids 24/7, but if you can't, training the dog–who will never mature beyond a mental age of 3--isn't the answer. Save yourself the money, train the kids--or keep the dog with you or crated when there are Foreign Anklebiters on Prem
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Pretty sure an add in but regardless…
you say no parent can supervise-- so save the money and train the kids.
I say nonsense, train the dog, bring your child up, try to educate and train other people's kids and absolutely supervise. And if you have a house full of guests, and a dog, crating the dog is common sense. And not just crate, but crate in a quiet area where some kid you don't know and cannot count on won't stick his hand in the cage. Those continually throwing in common sense things adds little here.The bottom line is you say training the dog a waste. I am shaking my head. Training the dog is always a big part of the answer. And if you are a RESPONSIBLE owner, you do what you need to train your dog. And tell me, is it too much to spend 10 to 15 mins twice a day, 3 or 4 days a week for a few weeks to get your dog to NOT see children as stressful or threats? You'd rather spend a LIFETIME of locking it away and hope no one ever slips up?
And to answer your question, I had Rottweilers, chow, rescues all the tiem my child was growing up. Yes, I had time. Active children do not need you supervising them 24/7. Children need alone creative time, naps (thank goodness) and in reality, my child helped feed and train the dogs from the time she was about 4. Dear spirits my 125 pound rottweiler hit the floor in a down faster for her than ever for me. And if you don't have time to train your dog and raise a child, don't get a dog or learn better time management. I had a friend who had a child with CP. Training her dog was her "me time" relaxation.
It is about commitment. And I can think of nothing more critical than dealing with a dog who is child aggressive. and I can think of nothing more irresponsible than simply choosing to try to isolate the dog from children when you have a child of your own. Do a web search for kids bit by neighbors dogs. You think you can't watch your own child 24/7== try watching the world. Which goes back to the beginning-- condition the dog to see kids in a positive light and in that BLINK moment, you have upped your chances of a good outcome. I cannot even believe anyone could argue with that. So now I am truly done.
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And to answer your question, I had Rottweilers, chow, rescues all the tiem my child was growing up. Yes, I had time. Active children do not need you supervising them 24/7. Children need alone creative time, naps (thank goodness) and in reality, my child helped feed and train the dogs from the time she was about 4. Dear spirits my 125 pound rottweiler hit the floor in a down faster for her than ever for me. And if you don't have time to train your dog and raise a child, don't get a dog or learn better time management. I had a friend who had a child with CP. Training her dog was her "me time" relaxation.
It is about commitment. And I can think of nothing more critical than dealing with a dog who is child aggressive. and I can think of nothing more irresponsible than simply choosing to try to isolate the dog from children when you have a child of your own. Do a web search for kids bit by neighbors dogs. You think you can't watch your own child 24/7== try watching the world. Which goes back to the beginning– condition the dog to see kids in a positive light and in that BLINK moment, you have upped your chances of a good outcome. I cannot even believe anyone could argue with that. So now I am truly done.
The part about it being unrealistic to directly supervise older kids 24/7 is completely accurate. Even younger ones to some extent…because...well, you have to have a shower occasionally, and dishes have to be done eventually. That being said, there are some dogs that just can't be trusted alone with kids, and those dogs can be crated when these situation are necessary. We have one dog like that...she has improved tremendously in the eight years we have had kids, at first she couldn't really be trusted around our toddler even with us in the room....now she is reasonably trustworthy around twin toddlers, but I still don't trust her alone with them. This change in her occurred with natural desensitization to the hubbub of children, time passing, and some concentrated work with her to learn to look to me, when she gets that feeling of "I am overwhelmed". So obviously, if she gets overwhelmed because a toddler falls on her, and I am not there, she doesn't have anyone to turn to. Not fair to her, or the kids.
I don't think there really is an argument to be had here. Both parts of the puzzle are needed here. There needs to be desensitizing training, there needs to be an alternative response behavior trained in the dog, and the dog needs to be put in a 'safe' and comfortable place when she can't be directly supervised with the kids. She will probably be extremely grateful to not be in an overstimulating environment. At first I felt so bad for Ivy when she required a time-out in her crate...but I quickly realized that often she was *asking to get away from the excessive stimulation.
For the OP, I really suggest that if you are committed to keeping this dog in your family, you find a really good trainer/behaviorist who only uses positive methods, and is up to date on the most current topics in dog training and behavioral modification, and pay whatever is necessary (obviously within your means). If you are unsure what trainers would fit the above description, search the internet for 'dog behavioral training' or 'positive reinforcement training'..or even this forum has a TON of threads about what kinds of training is out there. You CAN help this dog fit into your family...but it will take some work, and some committment
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Oh I totally agree. Even though I trusted my dogs, if I was in the shower, they were crated or she was in her room with a gate keeping HER in it, when she was young.
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Hey poopydog! long….thread! So, let us know how it went with the trainer????? What say they?
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As you can see from my postings, I am interested in the outcome. However, as I was reading through some of my old email, one came up from Dr Sophia Yin from California (I went to a seminar in Orlando and met her-cool lady!) (Debra Down South should agree that is it from a quality resource…) It is about classical/counter conditioning. Your pup may not be 'aggressive' but definitely reactive, so if you read through the link with the videos, you should gain some insight. I am going to start throwing more treats at Uzie since he has recently decided he does not like my older boy and growls as Hershey passes by-not too peaceful in the household! http://drsophiayin.com/blog/entry/preventing-dog-bites-stop-dog-aggression-before-it-starts Hope this helps out-anyone!
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Wow! this is one of many, many threads that I have responded to and I am very interested in the outcome of Poopydog and the nipping. As I was going through the Thread, I really had to bypass any of the responses of those who enjoy attacking one another. I sure hope this behavior did not thwart our member who really needed help. The majority are replies to one another trying to impart important knowledge or experience to someone who did not ask for it in the first place. Don't try to sound important. Everyone is, just give happy good-hearted advice and let us just not dig into the other who has a different opinion. Just dig, digs, and more digs. Really getting old….........................I know you won't miss me, but this is just too much.................................................................
