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Worst day at the park!

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  • GoobyG

    The only time i have ever had trouble with stupid mothers i found that getting louder than they are and making them understand that they are bad mothers worked. when being attacked by a bully breed i don't fuck around and just floor the dog ninja style.

    That being said most of the mothers around her expect strangers to discipline their children around strange dogs. and most of the pit bull owners around here call their dogs back after and elbow drop.

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  • MacPackM

    Pepper spray for the dog and the kids…only kidding..use it on the mom.

    Anne in Tampa

    Anne in Tampa

    Chipley, Missy & Lucky

    Topper, Nicky & Eddie in the clouds

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  • agilebasenjiA

    Wow, I thought stupid parents only existed on this side of the pond.

    Sounds like you and your pups were way over your thresholds. Stress added to stress can sometimes look like creative math where 2+2=8. So in the case of Foster, he was over (or very close to it) threshold after dealing with the staffy. When he encountered his "friend" his "friend" may have done something that, on a normal day, would have been a mild annoyance. But, the mild annoyance coming on the heels of the staffy incident was too much for Foster and he lashed out. The straw the broke the camel's back so to speak.

    And that applies to you in dealing with the loose child. Do you think you woul have lost your cool if you'd had a wonderful day at the park? It's like some days someone will cut you off in traffic and you'll grumble, other days (really crappy days) something like that will happen and you'll start yelling words that would make a salior blush. (Okay, maybe not you, if it helps, you can substitue me instead.)

    The reason I'm telling you all this, is that it can take time for those stress juices/pheremones to return to normal levels. So be on the look out tomorrow, perhaps the next day, for stressors in Foster's environment. If you're headed to the park and the loose staffy (or annoying child) is there, you'd probably do best to just take a nice walk somewhere else.

    And I'm sorry your nice day at the park was ruined. Hopefully things will look up tomorrow (which is probably already there as I type this right now)

    Make sense?

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  • F

    Ah, yes we have bad parents on this side of the pond as well! I think the fact that she was swearing like a trooper in front of her young children really shows what kind of person she is!

    I agree, Foster was way over his threshold for stress. Me too! It was just one of those days when everything goes wrong all at once…..today seems better!

    I did like the previous comment about dropping stray dogs ninja style...I will have to keep that in mind for the future! :)

    Thanks to everyone for the support...it's nice to know that I am not the only person to encounter these situations!

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  • wizardW

    I had something similar occur at the vets office. I was in the waiting room with EL D when this little girl comes in (her dad and dog were with the doctor) and starts running towards EL D with her hand out. I told her do not pet my dog but she keeps after him. I really wanted to grab her away but knew that could cause even more problems so I got between her and EL D and told her EL D needed to smell her to see if she was a good girl before he would let her pet him. I told her some dogs don't like to be petted and she needed to ask permission (something her parents should have taught her – like your stupid mothers) and luckily the vet's assistant walks in and so I just picked EL D up and left. Not an easy situation to be in but keeping cool has to rule.

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  • gbroxonG

    Sadly, the majority of people seem to believe that all dogs just love attention and affection from anybody. They think that if a dog doesn't like their kid running up all excited and manic to pet him, then the dog shouldn't be out in public. Shame on that mother for not teaching her kid the proper way to approach a dog and more shame on her for her potty mouth. Nice role model. :eek:

    Sorry you had such a bad day…

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  • achandl2A

    That stinks. I still say some people should leash their kids! <joking>Seriously, I know how you feel. If something like the pit bull incident happens before we get to the park you can forget Manning behaving in any way appropriate once we get there. We had a kid (and I mean little kid) one day who kept wanting to pet Manning while we were eating out on an outdoor patio downtown one day. Manning is pretty tolerant about kids petting him but this unsupervised child went from gently petting him to grabbing his ear all the sudden. As you can imagine he was not pleased. Luckily I had him on a short leash and was watching him closely so I yanked him back as soon as I saw her grab at his ear. It wasn't like we could get up and leave since we hadn't paid yet. Sorry to hear that you had to deal with both the unsupervised dog and child in the same trip.</joking>

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  • hdolbowH

    @wizard:

    I had something similar occur at the vets office. I was in the waiting room with EL D when this little girl comes in (her dad and dog were with the doctor) and starts running towards EL D with her hand out. I told her do not pet my dog but she keeps after him. I really wanted to grab her away but knew that could cause even more problems so I got between her and EL D and told her EL D needed to smell her to see if she was a good girl before he would let her pet him. I told her some dogs don't like to be petted and she needed to ask permission (something her parents should have taught her – like your stupid mothers) and luckily the vet's assistant walks in and so I just picked EL D up and left. Not an easy situation to be in but keeping cool has to rule.

    i had a similar incident with rocky at the vet.. i was the only person with a dog in the waiting room and there was a woman with a small boy getting meds for her dog.. the boy came over and asked if he could pet rocky and told him no and he asked why (of course) and i explained it as nicely as i could that he can be a mean boy and he likes to bite. and he walked back to his mother but then kept coming back and would sit right next to me and kinda try to get rocky to come to him and he would look at me then look away like he didnt want me to see him doing it.. so i had to keep rocky between my legs so the kid didn't get any closer. his mom just commented that i look like his aunt… thats why he was talking to me.. :rolleyes:

    Heather.

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  • S

    I had a very poor experience with another dog recently. I was walking Shelby on her leash and noticed an unleashed rough-looking dog in someone's front yard. Instead of turning around (like I should have done) I decided to cross the street and keep going in the same direction. Needless to say, it ran after us, barking and growling. I scooped Shelby up and put her in a pick-up truck parked in someone's driveway. I had to jump in myself to aviod a bite from the dog. People who will allow their aggressive dog to run around unleashed outside of a fenced in yard are beyond me!

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  • S

    You should call animal control and report a dangerous dog running loose.
    No one should have to deal with that type of danger when walking their dog.

    Sharron Hurlbut

    BRAT, basenji rescue

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