I am so sorry the news wasn't better but very happy getting him in fast. (((hugs)))
Will keep Barney in my thoughts
Barney is in my thoughts and I do hope that they'll be able to operate and that he can have a little more quality time with you. I know how hard it is to come to terms with thses terrible things.
November is always a bad month for me and mine too and each year I say that it should be cancelled!
Well, we will be leaving to see the cancer specialist shortly. The drive will be about an hour, so I know I will hear lots of meows and unhappy sounds, because Barney hates moving vehicles. My wonderful sister is driving, thank goodness, as my mind would not be on the road.
Yesterday my brother-in-law took a couple of videos of Barney shaking a paw for a snack. He also took a few lovely pictures. I'm going to upload the videos to youTube and then post them here. Will also post the pictures here, though I am rusty at that, but will figure it out.
I spent this morning, starting at 5 a.m. going through all of Barney's vet visit documents. He has been so healthy other than a thyroid problem that we took care of with radioactive isotopes. That was one treatment, and it meant we didn't have to give him thyroid meds daily.
I am not overly optimistic, but I guess there are always miracles.
Here's hoping for a miracle for Barney. Whatever happens you will know you have explored all avenues.
Dear friends,
Yesterday was a very tough day. How our animals are special. Usually during a car ride, Barney would let out a manly yowl to let me know he didn't like the sounds of traffic or the car we were driving in. But he was very calm and silent yesterday. Only upon returning and being about 5 blocks from home did he actually say anything. He let out a happy meow, glad to be going back to his home.
We spoke with a cancer specialist, and unfortunately there is nothing that can be done with this type of cancer and the location it is in. It is in a place it often grows - in the cheek and jaw below the eye. As it progresses it can get into the nasal cavity and also grow big enough to limit the vision in the eye. This is almost a cancer that can never be caught in time, unless it is found on the ear. Surgery is not an option due to the disfigurement and potential breathing problems. It does not respond to chemo, radiation or any pill form of chemotherapy, and it grows extremely fast.
The specialist was wonderful with Barney, and being a woman, Barney purred during the entire examination. She mentioned that she had never had a cat that was so relaxed through an examination. I wanted to tell her it that it must be her that was making him so calm, but the truth of the matter is he has always loved female vets. Such a charmer.
We have been given a timeline of anywhere from 1 - 3 weeks. Right now he is still eating as usual, and bathroom habits are consistent. He's been a little nature boy and has always done 'business' outside, but the specialist advised us to not let him out anymore as often animals will run off and hide to live out what is left of their lives. That would just kill me, not knowing where he was or what may have happened.
I spoke with our regular vet today, and she says she can come to our home when he is ready to pass over the Rainbow Bridge and into the light. She just needs a couple of days notice. We'll have him cremated so he will always be with us in some way, and in the future I will find a sunny beach that he would have loved and sprinkle a little of him on the warm sand.
Thank you for all of your wishes and kind thoughts. They do comfort me.
Fran,
i am very sorry that nothing can be done for Barney except love and care for the time he has left. I was thinking about you yesterday. I hope you all manage to have some lovely time whilst he's with you.
Dear Fran, I'm very sorry to hear about your little guy 
We keep you into our mind and please enjoy the time she has left, hugs to you both
Fran I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
Here is a video done last Sunday of Barney shaking a paw for a treat. I would always make sure he was paying attention first, and then would show him the snack and get a paw shake for it. We do five of those and then Barney gets what are called "free snacks". I'm in the blue shirt, my sis is in the purple sweater and you can just see my darling hubby Darrel in his wheelchair behind me. My sis's husband Lyle was doing the video. I like how my sis called Barney "Naomi Campbell" when he didn't start setting himself up promptly for the video shoot. I hope you guys enjoy it.
I hope you can see the video. If you do a hunt on something like "orange and white cat shaking a paw" on YouTube, it won't come up. You have to use the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BvHuZDQKN6k
He's lovely â you guys are lovely. It's a very nice glimpse into his world. Thanks for sharing it!
Fran, this was wonderfulâŠ.how is your dear kitty doing??
Brilliant, i have never seen a Cat shaking a paw and sitting on command before. Barney is one clever Cat.
I belong to a cat forum and another online cat club would it be ok to share your video with them.
LOL love the video.
I had a maine coon cat I taught quickly to play fetch. I swear he was more like a dog than a cat. So what do I have now? Dogs who are cat like. Yeah, I know that says something about me ⊠just not sure what.
Brilliant, i have never seen a Cat shaking a paw and sitting on command before. Barney is one clever Cat.
I belong to a cat forum and another online cat club would it be ok to share your video with them.
Yes, please go ahead and share the video with your cat club. Barney would be happy.
Fran, this was wonderfulâŠ.how is your dear kitty doing??
Hi Sharron, it is a day to day type of thing, as it is a fast growing cancer in cats. He seems quite comfortable. He is still eating, drinking water from the tap, shaking a paw for treats, but is resting longer. That could also be from the morphine he is getting from pain. Dr. M, his vet, needs 2 days notice and then she will make plans to euthanize him here. He is not at that point yet.
I am an utter mess. I just can't seem to eat, and I spend a lot of the day with him, resting in bed. I want to spoil him, so he has his own litter box in the middle bed room, along with some food and water. He sleeps under the covers with me for awhile, he crawls out and just mushes himself into me, purring up a storm.
I just don't know how I am going to do with him.
hugs,
Fran
Fran it breaks my heart for you. (((hugs))) I am so sorry, but I am so glad he has you. When you consider the life of 99.9999 percent of animals on earth, you have to take a little comfort knowing you have given him such a wonderful life.
Yes, please go ahead and share the video with your cat club. Barney would be happy.
Thank you Fran, i have posted it in the cat forum i belong to and an online cat club.
He's a Star
Barney will pass over the Rainbow Bridge this Friday afternoon. Monday night I was crying in bed, and asked âGodâ (I follow my own religion of being a good and kind person on this earth) to give me some sort of sign to help me make the decision as to when Barney needed to be put to sleep.
The next morning, Barney was laying on me (I was laying on my back). I was crying a little. He got up from laying down, sat on my chest near where I had folded my arms, and touched my arm with his paw, leaving it there for about 5 seconds as he gazed into my eyes.
I knew then that I had my sign. He was telling me he was ready, and that I should not feel guilty about making the decision. Yet again, another beautiful moment with this truly cosmic cat.
I want to thank all of you for being such wonderful support while all of this has been going on for me. Only animal lovers understand how losing a loved companion animal can be so devestating.
I ask you now to turn your thoughts to Barney for a speedy trip over the bridge where he will meet up with his mommy cat Miss Mew, have this cancer removed, and live a wonderfully happy life until I meet him again.
